My wife hasn’t worked since we were about 20 years old and had our first daughter. At that age, and with only a high school diploma, it would have cost us more money in day care for her to go to work than she was likely to make at whatever job she could get. She hasn’t just sat around for the last seven years, though; Aside from working to raise a couple of smart little devil-children, and taking care of me and our home, she’s also attended college at night for the last few years, and will be graduating this December.
After she graduates she’ll go on to Rockhurst (just like me! We’re twins:) to earn her Master’s of Education and eventually to become a teacher, something she’s wanted to do, reportedly, since she was six. At this very moment, though, she’s attempting to get a job as a paraprofessional. Her job, as a paraprofessional, would be to assist a certified teacher in the classroom, mostly by handing out supplies and setting up equipment. It’s really a great gig for her, because by doing this work, she’s taking care of the required classroom hours to become a certified teacher while getting paid. This is obviously much prefered to a normal student-teacher position, who gets nothing for the same type of work.
Now my poor, sweet, wife must go out to a job interview after nearly a decade away from the job market. I’m going to do a mock interview with her tonight using some questions posted to the University of Montana-Missoula‘s career services website. It’s still going to be tough because I can ask the questions, but have no idea what the answers should sound like, as I’m not a teacher and know nothing of the types of things one should look for in a teacher. I assume that patience is important, a belief in the undying potential of every child is likely a good thing; mostly I’m going to drill her on presentation: sound like you know what’s up, look like a teacher (dress), spin whatever classes you’ve taken which will help you in the job to make up for lack of experience, answer questions in a conversational manner without droning on.
I’m very proud of my wife for many things. I’m proud that she has taken such great care of my daughters and me, and I’m proud that she chose to continue her education even while being a wife and a mother at a young age. I’m really proud that she got right on the job search as soon as our youngest daughter was ready to start Kindergarten, without any fear of failure or apprehension about the change. She’s always been an amazing woman, she’ll be an amazing teacher’s aid, and she’ll be downright impressive as a teacher.